Adi Parva · Adhyaya 73
Shukra on Forbearance; Devayani on Wounding Words
Shukra teaches Devayani the worth of forbearance: the one who bears abuse and masters rising anger, as a driver reins in a horse, conquers the world, while anger makes gifts, sacrifices and austerities fruitless. Devayani replies that a disciple who forsakes his proper conduct should not be forgiven, and that one should not live among those who scorn one's conduct and birth. She describes how Sharmishtha's cruel words burn her heart, and declares that a wound made by words never heals.
शुक्र उवाच · Shukra said
Verse 1 (1.73.1)
यः परेषां नरो नित्यमतिवादांस्तितिक्षते । देवयानि विजानीहि तेन सर्वमिदं जितम् ॥
yaḥ pareṣāṃ naro nityamativādāṃstitikṣate | devayāni vijānīhi tena sarvamidaṃ jitam
"Know this, Devayani: the man who always bears the harsh words of others has conquered this whole world.
Verse 2 (1.73.2)
यः समुत्पतितं क्रोधं निगृह्णाति हयं यथा । स यन्तेत्युच्यते सद्भिर्न यो रश्मिषु लम्बते ॥
yaḥ samutpatitaṃ krodhaṃ nigṛhṇāti hayaṃ yathā | sa yantetyucyate sadbhirna yo raśmiṣu lambate
"He who holds back anger as it rises, as one reins in a horse, is called a true charioteer by the good — not he who merely hangs on to the reins.
Note on the text: Corrected इयं → हयं (misprint in Wikisource; इ for ह, as in the critical edition's hayaṃ, 'a horse').
Verse 3 (1.73.3)
यः समुत्पतितं क्रोधमक्रोधेन निरस्यति । देवयानि विजानीहि तेन सर्वमिदं जितम् ॥
yaḥ samutpatitaṃ krodhamakrodhena nirasyati | devayāni vijānīhi tena sarvamidaṃ jitam
"He who drives out rising anger by freedom from anger — know this, Devayani — has conquered this whole world.
Verse 4 (1.73.4)
यः समुत्पतितं क्रोधं क्षमयेह निरस्यति । यथोरगस्त्वचं जीर्णां स वै पुरुष उच्यते ॥
yaḥ samutpatitaṃ krodhaṃ kṣamayeha nirasyati | yathoragastvacaṃ jīrṇāṃ sa vai puruṣa ucyate
"He who here casts off rising anger through forbearance, as a snake sheds its worn-out skin, is called a true man.
Verse 5 (1.73.5)
यः संधारयते मन्युं योऽतिवादांस्तितिक्षते । यश्च तप्तो न तपति दृढं सोऽर्थस्य भाजनम् ॥
yaḥ saṃdhārayate manyuṃ yo'tivādāṃstitikṣate | yaśca tapto na tapati dṛḍhaṃ so'rthasya bhājanam
"He who holds his wrath in check, who bears abuse, and who, when made to suffer, does not make others suffer — he is surely fit for every good.
Verse 6 (1.73.6)
यो यजेदपरिश्रान्तो मासिमासि शतं समाः । न क्रुद्ध्येद्यश्च सर्वस्य तयोरक्रोधनोऽधिकः ॥
yo yajedapariśrānto māsimāsi śataṃ samāḥ | na kruddhyedyaśca sarvasya tayorakrodhano'dhikaḥ
"Of one who sacrifices tirelessly every month for a hundred years, and one who is never angry with anyone, it is the one free of anger who is greater.
Verse 7 (1.73.7)
तस्मादक्रोधनः श्रेष्ठः कामक्रोधौ विगर्हितौ । क्रुद्धस्य निष्फलान्येव दानयज्ञतपांसि च ॥
tasmādakrodhanaḥ śreṣṭhaḥ kāmakrodhau vigarhitau | kruddhasya niṣphalānyeva dānayajñatapāṃsi ca
"Therefore the man without anger is the best; desire and anger are condemned. For an angry man, gifts, sacrifices and austerities are all in vain.
Note on the text: Not in the critical edition (found in the vulgate recension). Removed a backtick at the start of the verse.
Verse 8 (1.73.8)
तस्मादक्रोधने यज्ञतपोदानफलं महत् । भवेदसंशयं भद्रे नेतरस्मिन्कदाचन ॥
tasmādakrodhane yajñatapodānaphalaṃ mahat | bhavedasaṃśayaṃ bhadre netarasminkadācana
"So it is in the man without anger that sacrifice, austerity and giving bear great fruit — without doubt, good lady — and never in the other.
Note on the text: Not in the critical edition (found in the vulgate recension).
Verse 9 (1.73.9)
न यतिर्न तपस्वी च न यज्वा न च धर्मभाक् । क्रोधस्य यो वशं गच्छेत्तस्य लोकद्वयं न च ॥
na yatirna tapasvī ca na yajvā na ca dharmabhāk | krodhasya yo vaśaṃ gacchettasya lokadvayaṃ na ca
"Neither ascetic nor man of penance, neither sacrificer nor follower of dharma is he who falls under the sway of anger; he has neither this world nor the next.
Note on the text: Not in the critical edition (found in the vulgate recension).
Verse 10 (1.73.10)
पुत्रो भृत्यः सुहृद्भ्राता भार्या धर्मश्च सत्यता । तस्यैतान्यपयास्यन्ति क्रोधशीलस्य निश्चितम् ॥
putro bhṛtyaḥ suhṛdbhrātā bhāryā dharmaśca satyatā | tasyaitānyapayāsyanti krodhaśīlasya niścitam
"Son, servant, friend, brother, wife, dharma and truthfulness — all these surely desert the man whose nature is anger.
Note on the text: Not in the critical edition (found in the vulgate recension).
Verse 11 (1.73.11)
यत्कुमाराः कुमार्यश्च वैरं कुर्युरचेतसः । न तत्प्राज्ञोऽनुकुर्वीत न विदुस्ते बलाबलम् ॥
yatkumārāḥ kumāryaśca vairaṃ kuryuracetasaḥ | na tatprājño'nukurvīta na viduste balābalam
"When boys and girls, thoughtless as they are, quarrel with one another, a wise person should not follow their example; they do not know strength from weakness."
देवयान्युवाच · Devayani said
Verse 12 (1.73.12)
वेदाहं तात बालाऽपि धर्माणां यदिहान्तरम् । अक्रोधे चातिवादे च वेद चापि बलाबलम् ॥
vedāhaṃ tāta bālā'pi dharmāṇāṃ yadihāntaram | akrodhe cātivāde ca veda cāpi balābalam
"Child though I am, father, I know the difference between one duty and another; I know too where strength and weakness lie in forbearance and in abuse.
Verse 13 (1.73.13)
स्ववृत्तिमननुष्ठाय धर्ममुत्सृज्य तत्त्वतः । शिष्यस्याशिष्यवृत्तेस्तु न क्षन्तव्यं बुभूषता ॥
svavṛttimananuṣṭhāya dharmamutsṛjya tattvataḥ | śiṣyasyāśiṣyavṛttestu na kṣantavyaṃ bubhūṣatā
"One who wishes to prosper should not forgive a disciple who, not following his proper conduct and casting off dharma in truth, behaves as no disciple should.
Note on the text: Removed wiki marks (a backtick, a quote mark and a doubled danda) around the first line. The first line is not in the critical edition (found in the vulgate recension); the second line = 1.74.9a.
Verse 14 (1.73.14)
प्रेष्यः शिष्यः स्ववृत्तिं हि विसृज्य विफलं गतः । तस्मात्संकीर्णवृत्तेषु वासो मम न रोचते ॥
preṣyaḥ śiṣyaḥ svavṛttiṃ hi visṛjya viphalaṃ gataḥ | tasmātsaṃkīrṇavṛtteṣu vāso mama na rocate
"A servant or a disciple who forsakes his proper conduct has gone astray to no purpose. Therefore I do not wish to live among those whose conduct is corrupt.
Note on the text: Removed wiki marks (a backtick, a quote mark and a doubled danda) around the first line. The first line is not in the critical edition (found in the vulgate recension); the second line = 1.74.9c.
Verse 15 (1.73.15)
पुमांसो ये हि निन्दन्ति वृत्तेनाभिजनेन च । न तेषु निवसेत्प्राज्ञः श्रेयोऽर्थी पापबुद्धिषु ॥
pumāṃso ye hi nindanti vṛttenābhijanena ca | na teṣu nivasetprājñaḥ śreyo'rthī pāpabuddhiṣu
"A wise man who seeks his own good should not live among evil-minded men who disparage one's conduct and birth.
Verse 16 (1.73.16)
ये त्वेनमभिजानन्ति वृत्तेनाभिजनेन वा । तेषु साधुषु वस्तव्यं स वासः श्रेष्ठ उच्यते ॥
ye tvenamabhijānanti vṛttenābhijanena vā | teṣu sādhuṣu vastavyaṃ sa vāsaḥ śreṣṭha ucyate
"But among the good who recognise one's conduct and birth — there one should live; that is called the best of dwellings.
Verse 17 (1.73.17)
सुयन्त्रितपरा नित्यं विहीनाश्च धनैर्वराः । दुर्वृत्ताः पापकर्माणश्चण्डाला धनिनोपि च ॥
suyantritaparā nityaṃ vihīnāśca dhanairvarāḥ | durvṛttāḥ pāpakarmāṇaścaṇḍālā dhaninopi ca
"Those who are always intent on self-restraint are worthy, even if they lack wealth; the ill-behaved and the doers of evil are outcastes, even if they are rich.
Note on the text: Not in the critical edition (found in the vulgate recension). Removed a backtick at the start of the verse.
Verse 18 (1.73.18)
नैव जात्या हि चण्डालाः स्वकर्मविहितैर्विना । धनाभिजनविद्यासु सक्ताश्चण्डालधर्मिणः ॥
naiva jātyā hi caṇḍālāḥ svakarmavihitairvinā | dhanābhijanavidyāsu saktāścaṇḍāladharmiṇaḥ
"No one is an outcaste by birth alone, apart from his own deeds; those who cling in pride to wealth, lineage and learning have the nature of outcastes.
Note on the text: Not in the critical edition (found in the vulgate recension).
Verse 19 (1.73.19)
अकारणाश्च द्वेष्यन्ति परिवादं वदन्ति ते । साधोस्तत्र न वासोस्ति पापिभिः पापतां व्रजेत् ॥
akāraṇāśca dveṣyanti parivādaṃ vadanti te | sādhostatra na vāsosti pāpibhiḥ pāpatāṃ vrajet
"They hate without cause and speak slander. A good man should not live among them; in the company of sinners he would become a sinner.
Note on the text: Not in the critical edition (found in the vulgate recension).
Verse 20 (1.73.20)
सुकृते दुष्कृते वापि यत्र सज्जति यो नरः । ध्रुवं रतिर्भवेत्तस्य तस्माद्द्वेषं न रोचयेत् ॥
sukṛte duṣkṛte vāpi yatra sajjati yo naraḥ | dhruvaṃ ratirbhavettasya tasmāddveṣaṃ na rocayet
"Whatever a man gives himself to, good deeds or bad, in that he surely comes to delight; therefore one should not take pleasure in hatred.
Note on the text: Not in the critical edition (found in the vulgate recension). Removed wiki marks (a doubled danda and a quote mark) at the end of the verse.
Verse 21 (1.73.21)
वाग्दुरुक्तं महाघोरं दुहितुर्वृषपर्वणः । मम मथ्नाति हृदयमग्निकाम इवारणिम् ॥
vāgduruktaṃ mahāghoraṃ duhiturvṛṣaparvaṇaḥ | mama mathnāti hṛdayamagnikāma ivāraṇim
"The dreadful, evil words spoken by Vrishaparva's daughter churn my heart, as a man who wants fire churns the fire-stick.
Note on the text: The first line = 1.74.12a; the second line is not in the critical edition (found in the vulgate recension).
Verse 22 (1.73.22)
न ह्यतो दुष्करतरं मन्ये लोकेष्वपि त्रिषु । यः सपत्नश्रियं दीप्तां हीनश्रीः पर्युपासते ॥
na hyato duṣkarataraṃ manye lokeṣvapi triṣu | yaḥ sapatnaśriyaṃ dīptāṃ hīnaśrīḥ paryupāsate
"I think there is nothing harder in all three worlds than this: that one who has lost his fortune should have to wait upon a rival in her shining prosperity.
Note on the text: Lines correspond to 1.74.12c and 1.74.12e of the critical edition (Wikisource divides the verses differently).
Verse 23 (1.73.23)
मरणं शोभनं तस्य इति विद्वज्जना विदुः । अवमानमवाप्नोति शनैर्नीचसमागमात् ॥
maraṇaṃ śobhanaṃ tasya iti vidvajjanā viduḥ | avamānamavāpnoti śanairnīcasamāgamāt
"For such a one death is better — so the learned know. One meets with dishonour little by little through keeping company with the base.
Note on the text: Not in the critical edition (found in the vulgate recension). Removed a backtick before the second line.
Verse 24 (1.73.24)
अतिवादा वक्त्रतो निःसरन्ति । यैराहतः शोचति रात्र्यहानि । परस्य वै मर्मसु ते पतन्ति । तस्माद्धीरो नैव मुच्येत्परेषु ॥
ativādā vaktrato niḥsaranti | yairāhataḥ śocati rātryahāni | parasya vai marmasu te patanti | tasmāddhīro naiva mucyetpareṣu
"Abusive words fly from the mouth; struck by them, a man grieves night and day. They fall upon the very vitals of another; therefore the steadfast should never loose them upon others.
Note on the text: Not in the critical edition (found in the vulgate recension).
Verse 25 (1.73.25)
निरोहेदायुधैश्छिन्नं संरोहेद्दग्धमग्निना । वाक्क्षतं च न संरोहेदाशरीरं शरीरिणाम् ॥
nirohedāyudhaiśchinnaṃ saṃroheddagdhamagninā | vākkṣataṃ ca na saṃrohedāśarīraṃ śarīriṇām
"What is cut by weapons may heal, and what is burned by fire may heal; but the wound that words inflict does not heal as long as the body lasts.
Note on the text: Not in the critical edition (found in the vulgate recension). Corrected दग्धमाग्निना → दग्धमग्निना (misprint in Wikisource; अग्निना, 'by fire', is required).
Verse 26 (1.73.26)
संरोहति शरैर्विद्धं वनं परशुना हतम् । वाचा दुरुक्तं बीभत्सं न संरोहेत वाक्क्षतम् ॥
saṃrohati śarairviddhaṃ vanaṃ paraśunā hatam | vācā duruktaṃ bībhatsaṃ na saṃroheta vākkṣatam
"A wound pierced by arrows heals, and a forest felled by the axe grows back; but the hideous wound of words, of evil speech, does not heal."
Note on the text: Not in the critical edition (found in the vulgate recension). Corrected संरोहित → संरोहति (misprint in Wikisource; dropped vowel sign) and नवं → वनं (misprint in Wikisource; transposed aksharas — 'a forest felled by the axe', as in the critical edition's apparatus, vanaṃ paraśunā hatam). Removed a stray quote mark at the end.